Have you spent time and money on conferences, workshops, books about writing … but still not figured out how to get the words on the page in a consistent way?
For two decades, I did everything I could to be a writer except actually writing consistently. I went to workshops, read books, and listened to author interviews, but I couldn’t make it happen. I told myself that being a busy teacher and parent meant that I didn’t have time to write books. I told myself … someday.
When I was 8, I wrote a story for my grandfather titled Why Grandpas Are Special. It was about a little girl’s grandfather who bought her a pony (and kept it in his yard, of course, since hers was too small). And she loved him SO, SO much.
I handed him the story bound in red construction paper, rolled and tied with a ribbon. He read it aloud like a kindergarten teacher to his class, all the while laughing and wiping away tears.
It was thrilling to have a story created in my imagination received so emotionally by my ideal audience, and even though I didn’t get a pony out of the deal, that feeling has long stayed with me. I decided then to be an author.
I had other interests too, one of which was working with children. Life lead me to teaching in public education, where – shocker! – my favorite subject was writing. Coaching students from 2ndgrade through college to generate an idea and see it come alive on the page was so satisfying. I saw many of them go from deeply doubting their ability to write to seeing themselves as writers.
When I took a hiatus from teaching when my kids were babies, I founded a nonprofit creative writing program for kids and teens in my community. For six years, we offered free workshops, teen writing conferences, and one-on-one support to local young writers with volunteer writers.
I didn’t believe in myself as a writer. I thought I was too busy, too distracted, too unmotivated to ever make my dream a reality. I thought I was unqualified, untrained, unlikely to ever get published. I saw myself getting older, getting bogged down in the details of daily life, and feared I had waited too long. I wished I could make myself sit down and write the book that was in my head, but I couldn’t. I knew I needed to get out of my own way, but I didn’t know how.
Finally, I realized that if I wanted to be a writer, I needed to hold myself accountable and be willing to believe in myself and my ideas. And the only way I was going to do that was to learn how to manage my own crushing self-doubt.
I needed to follow the advice I’d been giving my students for years. To help myself sit with the doubt and fear and put words on the page in an intentional way. I needed to learn how to manage my thinking and my expectations.
So I did that work for myself. I still do it, every day. And the result was the publication of my first book, Unspoken, in early 2020.
I work with writers of contemporary middle grade, young adult, or adult fiction and memoir. I support and guide writers through the early stages of the writing process, from blank page to solid first draft, using a mixture of proven strategies, deadlines, tough love and deep compassion for people who struggle with self-doubt around their ideas, craft, and worthiness of publication.
I live in Bellingham, WA with my husband, two teenaged kids, two cats, and a new puppy. I love taking walks and taking naps. I enjoy bad jokes and puns more than anyone probably should. My family and friends are my everything.
I’m an avid reader, an introvert, an Enneagram 4, and I’m slightly obsessed with sunflowers and dahlias, though I can’t keep plants alive no matter what I do. When I’m feeling adventurous, I enjoy hiking, paddleboarding, swimming, and basically any other outdoor activity.
This is the perhaps the hardest part of writing: those moments where you don’t know where to go next.
Some call it writer’s block. Some call it lack of inspiration. Some call it doubt in yourself or your idea.
I call it being STUCK. And what is stuck can be UNSTUCK.
Let’s talk it through.
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